Focus on?

Today was our second focus meeting – the once a month whole team meeting where we come together to refocus on the mission, tell stories, worship together and learn together. Its the key meeting for helping us stay on track and stay together.

Today we ate lunch, discussed some up and coming stuff like a backyard blitz we are doing, Easter, supporting one family in the team with finance and then had a go at some corporate worship and some thinking thru what leadership is about.

Bec is a great worship leader and took up the challenge to lead us today in a ‘corporate worship’ experience. She did a fantastic job – although I’m not sure she’d necessarily feel that! Doing new things and experimenting with new methods can feel a bit awkward at times – it did today in places. It was also really difficult with 6 or 7 kids clanking around and screaming in the background! But what she led us thru was a genuine worship experience where we had to engage with God and were given the opportunity to participate. Great stuff!

From there we looked at these words:

Institutional

Tradition

Hierarchy

Control

Leadership

In groups of three people were asked to do a bit of word association. Not surprisingly many of the words that emerged were negative – yet all of these words have positive aspects also. It seems that our experience has often caused us to see the negative more than the positive.

Today we were focusing on leadership – something that has copped some pretty bad (I would say ‘reactionary’) press in recent years. After going thru the late 80’s early 90’s where the pastor teachers were marginalised in favour of the gung ho visionaries we have seen the pendulum swing to marginalise the gifted leaders and see them as bully’s/dictators etc rather than team players. from this came the idea that we don’t need leaders or that we can have a completely flat leadership structure.

As usual it is likely the truth is never an either / or.

Rather than simply ‘teach’ what I believe leadership to look like (and I do have some pretty strong views) our plan is to split into three groups to explore the New Testament teaching on the topic – especially leadership structure in Christian communities.

We will do our own research over the next two weeks then meet as a small focus group to share learning and crystallise what we have seen together. Then in 4 weeks time we will come back and share that learning together and work to-wards developing a biblical leadership structure.

The 3 groups are 1. Gospels 2. Acts & Romans 3. Epistles and the rest

I’m looking forward to seeking how it all works out as we do this research together. My hope is that when we arrive at some conclusions we will do so with clarity and consensus recognising that we have delved into the scriptures and grappled with the issues rather than simply reading the latest trendy book and following what it says.accidental husband the divx download

Weary of Children

After teaching my 11/12 year olds on Thursday and Friday and then babysitting all day Saturday while Danelle took a Creative Memories workshop I was well and truly weary of children.

Then… It was up at 6.00am this morning to grumpy kids and it has just been ‘good-night’ to grumpy kids.

I feel pretty grumpy right now too.

I don’t want to see any children for a long time…

He Just Doesn’t Care…

In my reading today I was looking at ‘church leadership structures’ in the gospels and Acts.

Yes I realise ‘the church’ didn’t exist in the gospels but surely if Jesus was concerned for our church leaderships in the days after he was gone, he would have given some guidelines – right?…

Apparently not…

He does speak of how we are to treat one another and the place of greatness etc but he doesn’t tell us how we are to organise ourselves as churches to be effective. And yet we spend a lot of time on this issue.

What does that say?…

Obviously he had some kind of plan and system within the apostolic group. And he was the primary / focal leader

For all the talk of ‘flat leadership structures’ that I hear there is no question that Jesus was leading the apostles. In the early church unless I am blinded by my upbrigning it would seem that Peter, James and John played major ‘structural/positional’ leadership roles.

To be crass they were at the top of the apostolic food chain…

A heirarchy? Hmmm… another naughty word in Emerging Church circles! But is a heirarchy bad? Really?…

Abuse is bad – and heirarchies do hold the potential for abuse – but so do ‘unled’ groups where the loudest or most dominant or most manipulative voice can often set the agenda.

Sometimes I think that in our efforts to be ‘biblical’ we have simply framed our culturally biased pendulum swings in some biblical proof texts.

Just Having Fun

A little later this month our mission team and some of our neighbours will be teaming up to do a backyard blitz for a local woman who just can’t do it herself – physically or financially.

Can’t say any more than that, but we were planning it tonight and I realised what a buzz it will be to do it with the rest of the street and for her to see her backyard completed.download true colors divx

Off shore Office

Today I took my office offshore – literally – packed my books and spent the day in the ocean in the Kingswood (my boat). If you’ve read this blog for a while then you’d know that I love the ocean and today was one of those magic autumn days – cool morning warming up to 30 degrees with light breezes. Danelle was heading out and I was set for a housebound day, until I suggested she drop me at the marina and then pick me up again in the afternoon.

As well as some good reading and prayer my brother Steve and I finally scored some excellent waves at the Alkimos. I was told that the reef on the right hander is razor sharp – I got rolled once and have the cuts to prove it… Ouch!

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Gifted?

Ellie has just figured out to use the mouse touchpad on my laptop. I reckon that’s pretty good at 2 years old!

The only problem is that now she’ll want to use my computer!

Food for Thought…

“It is not atheists who get stuck in my craw, but agnostics. Doubt is useful for a while but we must move on. To choose doubt as a philosophy of life is akin to choosing immobility as a means of transportation.”

“Love is hard to believe, ask any lover. Life is hard to believe, ask any scientist. God is hard to believe, ask any believer. What is your problem with hard to believe?”

from “Life of Pi” by Yann Martel from here

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The Leadership Question

This Sunday we have a ‘focus meeting’ – our monthly team meeting where we come together to share stories, pray, and be equipped and inspired for the road ahead.

I realised when I was chatting with James download training day movie the other day that we are in need of talking about leadership as a group.

He asked me how we ‘did leadership’.

I wrote: ‘Sometimes the whole group leads and sometimes I lead. One is usually unproductive and the other is foolish’. As I wrote that I realised we are not in a healthy place with leadership. This morning Herdo and I chatted about it and agreed we need to put the question on the table…

‘How should we ‘do leadership’ at this point in our life as a community?’

It doesn’t assume we will always do it the same way, but it does say we need to find a way that works for us now.

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Definition of Hell…

This morning I discovered that someone had arived at this site by searching for ‘proximity and intimacy’. Seemed a strange search, so I followed it back a bit and discovered that Dante’s definition of hell is ‘proximity without intimacy’

Interesting way of seeing it…

Why come here?

Because I had a quote from Hugh McKay’s novel Winter Close, a story simply about a street in Sydney, which says the following:

“Rich (central character) is fond of saying that the thing about Winter Close is that it fosters a real sense of community. That’s a big claim and I wish I could share Rich’s confidence in making it. Now that Sydney has grown to four million, communities are hard to come by: a common complaint among Sydneysiders is that ‘we don’t know our neighbours’ – as if that’s the neighbours fault. I’ve given up saying ‘why don’t you knock on their door and introduce yourself?’ The puzzled looks I receive make it clear I have missed the point: plenty of people like not knowing their neighbours and only pretend to complain about it. Suburbia offers the wonderful cloak of anonymity for those who want the security of proximity without any of the demands of intimacy” P.10

So… it would seem that if McKay’s view of suburbia is correct, then Dante would view living in the suburbs as hell…