Brighton – Its What a Community Used to Be?…

It has been interesting watching a suburb develop and struggle to cope with the growing population and the inevitable social problems that accompany it.

There are 2700 homes in Brighton and around 5000 people, 2 primary schools, (one with 700 kids) and no high schools. The community facilities are currently limited to two small rooms by the sales office and the ex -cafe converted into a community centre by the local AOG church. The shops were completed earlier this year much to the joy of many residents, but for various reasons the suburb seems to be experiencing growing pains.

I am not sure all of what is happening, so please don’t read this as decisive social comment, but do read it as the concerned musings of a resident.

I am more ‘wondering’ what has shifted in the social landscape though, as we no longer seem to be as warm as we were previously. Perhaps we are entering the ‘reality’ stage of our development where the glossy newness of the suburb has worn off and we are now discovering that we have the same social problems as anywhere else – maybe even moreso.

Being the last suburb in the sprawl means we are a long way from anywhere and we are certainly not well resourced with facilities or people.

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In recent months we have seen:

– a huge increase in the amount of graffiti – I am told by predominantly 11-12 year olds often seeking peer approval.

– an increase in break and enters – there have been at least 2 young offenders released back into the ‘wild’ in Butler and they have become big fish in a small pond. When one moved back home last year there were 17 B & E’s in his own street the following week… a coincidence? The park opposite his home has become a war zone with regular fights there on Friday nights and brken bottles strewn around at other times.

– an increase in the number of gangs and violence – the AOG guys closed down their Friday night youth program after 2 violent and dangerous incidents where people were injured and property damaged by a gang of teenage boys. There was little choice as it was just plain dangerous. Last weekend a good friend of ours was beaten up by 6 teenagers, and that is a common occurence.

The local intranet regularly has people complaining about what is happening, but no one really has a solution. How do you work with teenagers whose only real desire is to run wild and create havoc. Youth groups aren’t the answer – they don’t come – or if they do they only come to destroy. Anyone who has done street work would know it is highly time intensive with low rewards in terms of people changing.

Your average suburbanite is either too busy, too afraid or too disinterested to get involved. Everyone wants peace in the backyard, but no one really knows how to achieve it, so for some its a case of being perplexed by the problems and not knowing where to start.

My youth work days are behind me now and I don’t really know quite how to work with the gangs and kids who are out of control. A recent community meeting did what so many have done in the past – identified a problem, discussed a problem and then we all went home.

As a small church community we really don’t have the resources to assist in this situation, but we are seeing our suburb change and it is concerning.

I don’t feel afraid, and I don’t fear for my kids as they are still too young to be affected by most of this, but I feel some responsibility for how this place develops. I get irate at those who carp and bitch about the problems but never get off their arse to do anything. But even for those of us who want to the question of ‘where to start’ is perplexing.

I would predict that things will continue to go downhill for quite a while unless something changes.

I imagine the developers would be concerned because the way the place is now is not going to sell land! At very least the economic concerns should motivate them to become more involved, but then again… what can they do?…

Tragic

In so many ways

I don’t know whether I feel sadness, shame, anger or all 3… This is ‘fuel for the fire’ for those who question the ethics of church life and the professionalisation of Christian ministry. Its one of the more bizzare stories I have come across where you wonder ‘is anyone home in there?!’

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Twit-ter

I think the name sums it up quite well.

Facebook was kinda weird and invasive, but now TWIT-er is a site where I can update you on whatever I am doing throughout the day, no matter how inane it may be. Just imagine…

reading the paper…

watching the footy…

doing the dishes…

taking a wizz…

picking up dog turds…

emptying the dishwasher

Does anyone really care that much?! And how much of a life would I have if I was sitting around reporting on it every 30 minutes or so…

watching tv…

just farted…

blaming it on the kids…

wife not convinced…

My friend Mike Frost has critiqued blogging for its naricissism (see Exiles), possibly a true observation depending on which blogs you read, but this little site hits a new high in narcississtic absurdity.

My days are rarely interesting enough to blog about. I can only imagine how droll my twitter page would be…

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‘will never fart again’…

‘I promise’…

I lied…

again…

Mission Beyond the Saucer

I was having a coffee with Rory a few weeks back and he made an observation that has been really helpful to me in framing up what we believe we are called to do as Upstream Communities and in a broader sense with Forge as we train missionaries for the western world.

He was asking me to describe what we do and as we were talking said,

“It sound a bit like this to me…” pointing to the coffee cup on the table.

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“If the cup is the ‘church’, then most churches tend to reach people in the saucer – those who are nearby, who are already seeking, maybe those who are needy and requiring help. They come because they know its a ‘church’.

It sounds like what you are doing is intentionally moving beyond the saucer to try and connect with those around the ‘table’ who are not needy and may not even be that interested.”

I thought it was a great analogy and have used it plenty of times since, because it does feel very much like what we do, and it also helps us to come to grips with why our work is slow and at times seems to be unfruitful.

I have been asked many time why I don’t just pack it in and ‘go back to church’, because we had more ‘success’ in that environment. But the question is actually quite a foolish one, a taunt that if we paid attention to would do more harm than good to the cause of mission & the gospel here in Australia.

I have no problem acknowledging that for some the existence of church in its regular public form is the way they find their way to faith / God or whatever they discover. For ‘saucer’ people ‘cups’ make wonderful sense and are very accessible. When ‘saucer’ people do Alpha courses it is usually because they are open and seeking and as a result they often make significant faith decisions in that context. There’s no question we need ‘cups’ for those who live in the saucer.

However we also need those who are committed to connecting with the folks who live well beyond the saucer, who are unlikely to find their way to the ‘cup’, or who may have an aversion to ‘cups’ or previous bad experiences at the hands of ‘cup’ people. They may not even know that ‘cups’ exist or if they do they see them as having no bearing on their own lives.

Its important to realise that these are not evil debauched heathens who are destroying our societies with their wicked ways, but in fact are more than likely to be good decent people who feel no need to find their spirituality in the Christian story. We have often said the hardest people to reach are those who are happy, moral and satisfied with their own life – probably a majority of our society. And if they aren’t happy at the moment they will be when they make their next purchase!

I haven’t met anyone yet who would say it is a relatively easy task to reach beyond the ‘cup’. As I speak with local pastors of churches large and small no one is able to tell me of ‘great success’ in communicating the gospel to those beyond. There is no question that some ‘cups’ service the ‘saucer’ better than others, and grow accordingly but for those trying to connect personally outside the saucer the road is long and slow. I was discussing this with a pastor of a large pentecostal church last night – a church that is doing good work and making progress with saucer people.

On an organisational level they see some progress there as they are a well run church with some excellent programs, but at a personal neighbourhood / friendship level they are equally perplexed about how to connect the story of Jesus with their friends who like them, respect them, but just don’t feel a need for faith…

There’s a part of me that says ‘that’s life and its ok because people are free’ and there’s a part of me that says ‘that’s life and its not ok at all!’

I reckon our challenge is to walk that line Peter speaks of – always being prepared to share the hope we have but with gentleness and respect.

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Mortgage Pressure in Perth

In today’s West Australian residents of Butler were listed

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as one of the two suburbs most likely to be suffering from ‘mortgage stress’ with 33.9% of their income being used on simply paying off the housing loan.

Housing affordability in Perth is at critical levels with the average home cost being around $480 000.00, well beyond the reach of any first home buyers, unless they are prepared to put themselves in a crazy situation.

It results in all sorts of situations we never thought possible a few years back. There are people now who may never own their own home, there are people living with parents to get by, people living in cars… Rentals are extremely difficult to obtain and prices are going through the roof on them as well.

There is no easy answer in sight while WA’s economic boom continues.

Part of the problem is that some people seem to believe there is a certain standard of living that they are entitled to and aren’t prepared to do the ‘hard yards’ as they accumulate housing equity.

A couple of years back now I watched a current affairs show where a young couple were lamenting that they just couldn’t afford a house, however the type of house and suburb they were seeking was of the ‘4 x 2’ variety in an affluent suburb. It seemed absurd. Of course you can’t afford that kind of place, and even less so these days!

But if you’re prepared to buy a two bed unit or a smaller cheaper place then you can still live and get by.

I wonder if for some in our own area that sense of ‘entitlement’ is the reason they are doing it tough. There are plenty of people living in huge houses with plasmas, foxtel and new cars, all funded by astronomical mortgages who are apparently ‘doing it tough’.

‘Tough’ is possibly not the word I would use.

BenChrist

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There is an interesting art exhibition on in Perth at the moment exploring the religious aspects of football in Oz culture. Here is one image from the exhibit.

Its just begging for a comment…

Cheeeeese

I have discovered that I need to get some business cards and was exploring some online options, one being these guys.

I couldn’t see on their website if they post to Australia, so I thought I’d call. The conversation went like this:

Dan: ‘Hi my name is Dan. What is your first and last name?’

Hamo: Odd way to begin but anyway… ‘Andrew Hamilton’

Dan: ‘How can I provide you with excellent service today?’ (What the?!)

Hamo: ‘Mate, I was just wondering if you post to Australia?’

Dan: ‘Yes we do – anywhere that UPS posts, we go’

Hamo: ‘Cool – that’s all – thanks mate’

Dan: ‘Can I help you with anything else?’ (I thought I just answered that)

Hamo: ‘Nope – all good.’

Dan: ‘Have I provided you with excellent service today?’

What?…

How do you measure the quality of service that requires a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer?!!

Hamo: ‘Sensational mate!’

I think Dan might have realised I was taking the piss but it wouldn’t be ‘excellent service’ to say so…

MLK’s conversion to Christ’s limitless love

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Guest in the backyard: Jarrod McKenna

A big influence on me, Lesslie Newbigin, once commented “trying to criticize ones own culture is like trying to push a bus while you are sitting in it.”

One of the reasons my new coffee coach’s (talking about you Grendel!) comments are often more penetrating than others is that he’s not sitting in the ‘Christian culture bus’. On Wednesday’s I’ll be throwing another voice that’s able to give our thinking about culture, mission and discipleship a push… Gandhi.

Martin Luther King Jr. wrote that in studying Gandhi;“My scepticism concerning the power of love gradually diminished… prior to reading Gandhi, I had about concluded that the ethics of Jesus were only effective in individual relationships… but after reading Gandhi, I saw how mistaken I was.”

Without Gandhi’s influence Dr. King would never have become one of the heros of the practicalites of ‘the weapons of love’ that transformed American’s structural racism. It is my prayer that in teaching about the life of Gandhi, Christians can go through the same conversion experience Martin Luther King Jr. did and not limit God’s love.

Gandhi at the spinning wheelAfter studying Gandhi, Dr. King was no longer willing to limit Jesus’ commandments to love God, self, neighbour and enemy to just ‘individual relationships’. No longer willing to limit God’s love and keep it just a private reality instead of permeating all of life. No longer willing to limit the Lordship of Jesus to merely the heart excluding it from the social, political and economic as well.

Through the life of this Hindu who daily meditated on and practiced the Sermon on the Mount, MLK heard a fresh Jesus say,

“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord’ and do not do what I say?” (Luke 6:46)

It is my hope and prayer that not just Christians but the world would come to see that proclaiming Jesus as Lord (our final authority) is only done when we put down our weapons and and love our enemies, feed the hungry, Fritz Eichenberg's peaceable kingdominvite in the refugee, cloth the naked, look after the sick, visit the imprisoned and be prepared not to compromise on what Martin Luther King called “the power of love” as we seek to transform the Powers to serve the humanising purposes of God. Even if it means going the way of the cross, trusting only in resurrection power.

 

  • So I invite you once a week to join me on a prayerful journey with a thin, bald,toothless, five foot tall, leader who changed the world as we listen to his thoughts and quotes on Jesus and Christianity. “Wednesday’s with Gandhi”.

I Did It… They Rang…

Well, after losing my youth pastor coaching job I had a few weeks where I just didn’t have enough work.

I actually got a bit bored (I never get bored) and went as far as re-enlisting to teach. The amount of red tape and nonsense you need to go thru to get back on the books is so humongous that on previous attempts I have just thrown the papers in the bin. I also tend to feel the same way about teaching as I do about drinking my own vomit.

But I did it… I was sooooo bored one day… Sooooo bored I figured I could even find teaching more enjoyable than watching day time television (ok – I wasn’t really doing that!)

Yesterday they told me I am ‘official’. I am now legally allowed to teach kids again. Bloody scary…

Today the phone rang…

‘Are you available to teach a class of year 5s for 4 days at the end of this term?…’ the voice said.

My brain said ‘Bugger off – you’ve got to be kidding!’ But my voice said ‘Sure… I’ll give it a go…’

So in a month’s time I will teach my first ever primary school class. I have done primary phys ed and high school teaching of all sorts, but never proper primary classroom stuff, so it should be interesting…

I am figuring we will fill the day with morning fitness, pre-lunch sport and then after lunch sport…

Hopefully there will be enough work for the kids to get on with because if I have to wing it or make it up in the spot I am going to be well and truly exposed.

Think of the $$$…

Think of the $$$…