Because Leaders Lead

Over the last few weeks at QBC we have been teaching and leading the crew in a congregational discernment process, seeking to help people listen to God and hear his voice on a particular issue we are processing as a church. The issue is one where its important that we get people’s contribution, but also their considered, prayerful input, rather than their ‘best gut feel’ when they have a spare moment. Its been good to re-visit this subject and attempt to put in place some thoughts for how we can do this as a church in future decisions.

As I began teaching on this stuff I came to the topic with the view that ‘we need to get the people in the game’, more when it comes to discerning. But the more I have delved into this biblically the more I seen and felt the need for leaders to step up to the plate and offer some clear spirit led direction.

Last week as we looked at decisions in the book of Acts we saw that there is no ‘one size fits all’ approach to this. We go from the replacement of Judas in Acts 1 with what is in effect a ‘coin toss’, through to the more rigorous and nuanced discernment process in Acts 15 where the discussion revolves around whether Gentiles need to be circumcised.

But what is common to virtually every decision made is significant leadership involvement and guidance. In Acts 6 where they choose a 7 men to serve, the apostles tell the people to do it, but they are then brought back to them for commissioning. In Acts 10 when Cornelius comes to faith and the Holy Spirit zaps him Peter makes a ‘captain’s call’ and declares them ‘in the game’ because of what happened. He acts alone, but not without accountability as in Acts 11 he gets grilled by the rest of the crew.

Clearly when we are leading people we need to meet them where they are at and lead from there – which can be tricky because people are in different places. But one of the challenges in involving others is paying too much attention to those who don’t have enough to say – or who don’t have ‘considered input’.

Its difficult not to be somewhat blunt in saying this, but truth is that some people don’t pray much, think much or take the time to really contribute. That’s how it is… Some folks attend church and that’s as much as they do… Others take the communal responsibility seriously and offer some great insights.

But leaders by necessity as well as by desire, will engage in the processes in depth and as a result their thoughts should be highly regarded. In a culture that has become increasingly skeptical of leadership and of agendas that can be difficult. But my read of Acts suggests that leaders have a prime role in discerning God’s direction and hopes for the church.

What does that mean for the people in the church community?

I don’t believe we ever get to a place where leaders just make calls and people go with it or suck it up. But I do get the sense that if people are going to participate in discernment processes then they need to do so with some rigor, otherwise it can actually undermine the work others will have done. We can’t have people turning up to a congregational meeting, opening the ‘church file’ in their brain and saying ‘right… where were we?…Oh yes that’s right…’

In issues requiring discernment I believe we need leaders to lead and also to listen to those who have taken the time to listen to God themselves. But primarily we need leaders to lead.

5 thoughts on “Because Leaders Lead

  1. Interesting thoughts. A little more tossing the coin may also be welcome in some Churches … Possibly not in Baptist churches though where this practice may be misconstrued as a form of gambling … Any way on a serious note – the concept of requiring Leader’s to Lead makes me think whether A) Politicians are Leaders and B) Some Leaders are really just good politicians.

  2. I would like to see more ‘tossing the coin’ in nay organisation that finds it hard to make decisions – although may be construed as gambling in a Baptist Church.:-)

    Re: Leaders to Lead – two thoughts 1) Are some Leaders really politicians and 2) Are Politicians really Leaders.

  3. Loving these posts – and completely agree with this. An interesting additional thought I had as I reading is that often there are people who are overly invested for (often complex) personal reasons and it’s important as leaders to hear those people’s perspectives but not to give undue weight to the strength or volume of them. It’s a tricky balance as those people can also be speaking out of their prayerful discernment (and God does and can speak through them) as well as the stuff that they are saying being sometimes there own “stuff”, like with all of us. I guess I was just aware that high engagement isn’t always healthy engagement. (I say “them” but that “them” has at times been me!)

  4. Hamo – you can delete one of my duplicate posts. I comment as I commute, and the mobile app crashed so I resubmitted it.

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