You just never know
If this is
IT
The last embrace
The final moment of shared joy
A simple hug in the kitchen
Before you hit the road
‘Love you dad’
‘Love you mate.’
Chests bump, hands slap
Blokes
But then
The news
That something has gone wrong
That he won’t be coming home
Ever
The utterly unimaginable has happened
So this evening you hold her a little longer
A treasured moment of deep gratitude
For the life you share
Revelling in the simple pleasure of fatherhood
For a little longer
Because you just don’t know
I’ve had a few of those moments, and I count it a gift these days – never a day goes by I don’t think about that line in the Sunscreen Song, “4pm on some idle Tuesday.”
Your writing is a gift, brother. Keep bearing your heart. Your vulnerable endurance is an inspiration.
Thanks Steve – I’m sure you know the feeling well
Such a beautiful poem Andrew and so true, to treasure each hug and moment we have with our loved ones
Thanks for the precious reminder mate.
Sobering
Thankyou brother
Hello, I am praying for you. Please let me know how you can go on. My husband and I recently received that phone call as well. My 39-year-old son committed suicide. It has changed my life forever. He had 4 children. ( triples 6 years old, and another son age 12). They have a very uncertain future, I am a Christian. I am suggesting. Other Christian friends advise and try to help, however often it is hurtful. Please let me know how you are getting through this very dark journey.
Hi – It is a day at a time and holding to the conviction that God is good in spite of all that happens to us. So sorry to hear your story.